He makes good money, has a nice house, drives an expensive car… What is missing?

He thinks he’s found the perfect girl - now how can he make her notice he exists?

He’d marry her in a heartbeat if she lost about 40 pounds.

She feels like she’s doing the right things, so why do men not ask her out?

Since we were teens, we have believed a babe in a bikini gets the boys. The better we look in a bikini, the belief goes, the better our chances of snagging a man’s attentions. But is it their attention we want, or their affection? Here’s how to get both.

As women, we are accustomed to being judged by our looks. We know that men have decided to approach, pursue or get to know us better based upon the way we look. We have resented this. Its seems superficial. But could it really be just super perception?