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<font size="-1"><b>Women, please note:</b> 
This article was written by a man, for men. If you read it, please 
do not take offense. Remember that men and women are different, 
they communicate differently, and they have different goals and 
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<font size="5" color="333399"><b>Conscious Loving for Men</b></font><br>
by William Van Vechten</p>
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<i>So why would a man want to learn about conscious loving, anyway?</i></p>
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<font size="7" color="#bb1111"><i><b>Sex!</b></i></font>
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In the commercials, at 
the checkout, in the movies, and on television. We're constantly 
being told about more and better sex, but who's getting it? The 
men who practice conscious loving are getting it. Why? Because if 
you can understand and apply the concepts of conscious loving:
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<LI>Women will be more attracted to you, more generous with you, 
and more giving towards you.<br><br> 
<LI>You can be cooperative partners with your spouse or girlfriend 
instead of being angry and struggling for power. <br><br>
<LI>You and your partner can tell each other honestly what's on 
your minds instead of expecting the other to be a mind reader. <br><br>
<LI>Enhanced communication, more desire and increased generosity 
can lead to the greatest sex you've ever experienced. <br><br>
<LI>Whether you're married or single, your love life will likely 
improve significantly. 
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Are there other benefits? 
Definitely! And they aren't limited to romantic relationships, either.</p>
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<LI>Get along more effectively with your parents, family, and children.<br><br> 
<LI>Enrich your relationships with friends. <br><br>
<LI> Help people to like you more and treat you better.<br><br>
<LI>Advance your career. 
</ul>
The principles of 
being conscious and honest work in all relationships... with friends, 
family, fellow workers, everyone. Very few relationships can be perfect, 
but almost all can be enhanced.  There 
is so much to gain in so many areas that it is worth some investigation.
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<b><font size="4" color="#333399">Just what is conscious loving, anyway?</font></b></p>
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<img src="/images/ks15006.jpg" width="120" height="180" align="right"> 
It's a different approach to relationship, where you make a committed 
effort to understand yourself, your partner, and your pattern of 
relating to each other. You learn new communication skills, new 
sexual techniques, new ways of problem solving, and other effective 
tools to improve results with people.</p>
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The practice of conscious 
loving requires effort, both now and for the rest of your life. 
Is it worth it? Absolutely!</p>
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Do you wait for your 
partner to try it out with you? Well, we believe that when a couple 
dives into this together, the results can be remarkable. But you 
can also do it on your own. Your whole life could change for the 
better!</p>
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I invite you to keep 
an open mind. More than that, I invite you to soak this up. Learn 
all you can, and try it out. If it doesn't work for you, then drop 
it. But give it a chance. I am dedicated to living and sharing about 
conscious loving because of the awesome positive changes that it 
has made possible in my life. I believe you can achieve incredible 
results as well.</p>
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Some of the possibilities:</p>
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<li>Find the love of your life.<br><br> 
<li>Create the kind of relationships you always dreamed of. <br><br>
<li>Reduce anger, mistrust, and struggle. <br><br>
<li>Increase creativity and self-esteem.<br><br> 
<li>Expand the joyfulness and contentment in your life.
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<b><font color="333399" size="4">What is the goal of this site?</font></b></p>
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With this website, 
we are attempting to bring together the latest and most extensive 
wisdom, knowledge, and teachings on loving and relationships from 
a wide variety of sources.</p>
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We want to help support 
the community of people who want to change their lives and their 
relationships. We hope to make this site a source for information 
and products, and to make it an entertaining place to learn about 
and cultivate a new way of life. Our site will also be changing 
and growing, so come back often!</p>
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